Proper upbringing of children
One of the most important issues for parents is the proper upbringing of their children. Mothers and fathers are always concerned about how to raise their children so that they can be useful and humane in the future.
In the field of psychology, there is a branch called child psychology. This science teaches families how to raise their children properly and how to deal with them properly. One of the achievements of this science is teaching parents the skills of deliberate behavior against children's actions. Given that one of the main problems for parents is that due to their excessive interest in their children, most of their reactions are emotional and they react to most of their child's behaviors thoughtlessly and quickly, learning these skills are useful.
Dear parents, you should know that children do not only need love and support. Sometimes, along with love, we should use warnings and warnings against our child's wrong behavior, and as the famous saying goes, we should not let our child be tempted to break with any flip. Our children will not always remain children, so we must think about their future as adults. We must raise our child to be a strong and at the same time pure-hearted person, so that in the future he will not oppress or be wronged.
Dear parents, you should know that children do not only need love and support. Sometimes, along with love, we should use warnings and warnings against our child's wrong behavior, and as the famous saying goes, we should not let our child be tempted to break with any flip. Our children will not always remain children, so we must think about their future as adults. We must raise our child to be a strong and at the same time pure-hearted person, so that in the future he will not oppress or be wronged.
Proper upbringing of a child brings many issues and problems, the most important of which are:
- How to encourage, punish
- How to love and care, ignore
- The correct way to teach issues
- How to listen to his words and respond or act on them or not
- The correct way to correct the child's misbehavior
- Correct behavior in the face of fears and cries and in general the weakness of the child
There are the above issues and thousands of other issues about raising children, each of which is important in some way. So before we think about having children, we have to think about raising her and acquiring the necessary skills. Because parents are responsible for their children. Behavioral patterns of children are primarily their parents and to a lesser extent friends and the environment and those around them and society. So let's be a good role model for our children. There are some parents who expect to have a competent and competent child, regardless of how they behave at home and in the family.
We need to know that children are like raw flowers that parents shape. In order for this raw flower to become a work of art, we must be skilled and artistic potters. Although after puberty and entering the field of youth, there is a possibility of change in behavior and actions in humans, but this flower, which has been formed and dried over many years and has become a special form, to change shape must first Break and crush and burn to make. It may even be completely destroyed by high pressure during these stages.
There are the above issues and thousands of other issues about raising children, each of which is important in some way. So before we think about having children, we have to think about raising her and acquiring the necessary skills. Because parents are responsible for their children. Behavioral patterns of children are primarily their parents and to a lesser extent friends and the environment and those around them and society. So let's be a good role model for our children. There are some parents who expect to have a competent and competent child, regardless of how they behave at home and in the family.
We need to know that children are like raw flowers that parents shape. In order for this raw flower to become a work of art, we must be skilled and artistic potters. Although after puberty and entering the field of youth, there is a possibility of change in behavior and actions in humans, but this flower, which has been formed and dried over many years and has become a special form, to change shape must first Break and crush and burn to make. It may even be completely destroyed by high pressure during these stages.
However, is it fair to fail to raise our beloved child? The judement is your's.
Closing remarks:
In order to avoid regrets in the future and not to fall short in front of our children, we must first be educated on all issues related to the development and upbringing of our children, and as a good and responsible parent, we must have the right to have great blessings from God Almighty. Reading useful books, following the example of your parents to teach your child the right behaviors, getting help from a child counselor and using new scientific methods in the field of child psychology are among the useful ways to learn various issues of proper parenting.